Plan a living funeral

Plan a Living Funeral

Host a meaningful goodbye while you are still surrounded by the people who matter most. Coordinate guests, invitations, venues, schedules and tributes in one shared place.

A card with event details

Plan the event step by step

Living funerals are often planned within a short timeframe. Keep guests, vendors and family aligned from the first invitation to the final toast.

  1. 01

    Choose the format

    Decide on the tone, guest count and whether the event should feel formal, casual, spiritual or celebratory.

  2. 02

    Book the venue

    Reserve a venue that feels personal, accessible and comfortable for the host and guests.

  3. 03

    Invite guests early

    Send invitations quickly so friends and family can arrange travel and time off.

  4. 04

    Coordinate the program

    Plan speeches, music, meals, tributes and moments guests should prepare for.

  5. 05

    Manage updates in one place

    Share schedule changes, venue details and practical information without fragmented messages.

Plan the goodbye on your own terms

Keep guests, schedules, invitations and practical details organized in one shared place while you focus on the people around you.

Guide

Living funerals often need fast coordination

Plans can change quickly when health, travel and family schedules are involved. Keep communication and responsibilities organized from day one.

Flexible planning windows
Most living funerals are planned within a few weeks or months.
Guest coordination matters
Friends and family often travel from different cities or countries.
Venues are usually personal
Many events are hosted at homes, gardens, restaurants or meaningful local venues.
Schedules may change quickly
Keep guests updated if timing, health or logistics change before the event.
Multiple people help plan
Partners, children and close friends often share planning responsibilities.
The tone depends on the host
Some living funerals feel reflective while others are more social and celebratory.

Coordinate guests, schedules and tributes in one place

Living funerals often involve changing schedules, emotional conversations and many people helping at once. Keep planning calm and structured in one shared space.

Invite the right people

Send invitations, collect RSVPs and give guests one clear place to find event details.

Keep everyone updated

Share changes to time, venue, travel or health-related plans without sending scattered messages.

Coordinate the practical setup

Track venues, catering, seating, music, flowers, speakers and other event details.

Share tasks with others

Assign planning tasks to family, friends or helpers so no one carries the full load alone.

Shape the tribute program

Plan speeches, music, readings, stories, meals and moments the host wants included.

Keep details easy to find

Give guests and planners one shared place for schedules, updates, addresses and practical notes.

Bring everyone together around one shared plan

Keep invitations, guest communication, schedules and practical details organized while you focus on the people who matter most.

Start planning early enough to gather everyone together

Living funerals are often planned within a few months. Starting early gives guests time to travel, helps reduce stress and makes coordination easier if plans change later.

2–3 months before

Choose the format, guest count and venue for the event.

6–8 weeks before

Send invitations so guests can arrange travel, accommodation and time off work.

4–6 weeks before

Confirm catering, seating, accessibility needs and transportation plans.

2–3 weeks before

Coordinate speeches, music, tributes, photos and the event schedule.

1 week before

Share final updates, arrival details, parking information and schedule changes with guests.

Event day

Welcome guests, follow the schedule and focus on spending time together.

Frequently asked questions about living funerals

Frequently Asked Questions

A living funeral is a gathering held while the host is still alive. Friends and family come together to share stories, meals, music and goodbyes in person.